In my head I said no. I was in Korea. I am going to use the chopsticks even if I make a complete fool out of myself. And so I pointed to the kitchen and then at my fork and then I realized that they had no idea what I was doing. I went to the kitchen on my own, put back the fork and got a pair of chopsticks.
ahhhhhhhhhhh
Omma motioned to me. She pointed at the chopsticks and then at me and then put her thumbs up and shrugged her shoulders. In my head I ran through the possible situations. I could go for the kimchi, but it looked like it could slide out of grip to easily. I looked at some of the other foreign looking dishes and went for the one that looked the most solid. I pick up what would later find out was tteok, Korean rice cake, and brought it almost all the way back to my bowl. It slipped out of the metal chopsticks and onto the table.
It could have been a strange moment, had I not started laughing. They started laughing too. There was nothing worthy of being ashamed of, and so we laughed.